Hair Bleaching Gone Wrong
This is one blog post I never wanted to write and honestly, I almost didn’t. Let me just start this off by saying that I pretty much completely ruined my hair. I have never been so devastated by a hair incident, ever. I wanted to forget that it even happened and just move on with my life. But the more I thought about it, I figured I needed to do my blogging duties and share my experience to either prevent it from happening to others or to help those who may be going through the same thing. And if you are, I am so, so sorry.
Close to a year and a half ago, I dyed my hair for the first time ever. I didn’t use any bleach and just did a small strip a beautiful teal color. Teal was hard to maintain, so I bleached it a few months later in order to get the blue out and dyed it pink. I’ve had the pink for almost a year now and I was in love with it. It was so much fun! The picture below is one of the last pictures I had with the pink hair. It had grown out a lot and I hadn’t touched up the color in about six or seven months.
Now that I’m in the process of planning my wedding, I wanted to take the pink out and go back to my natural brown. Just because of all the pictures I know are going to be taken around this time, I wanted to keep it natural for these memories. It’s totally possible that I might dye it pink again after the wedding. But right now, I had to get it back to brown.
I went to Sally’s Beauty Supply to have someone help match me to the color that I’ll need and that’s where this all went wrong. I mentioned that I bleached my hair before in order to get the blue out. I used the Beyond the Zone Radical Color Remover and didn’t have one problem with it. My hair was not damaged at all after using that twice, so that’s what I went to purchase again. But the lady at Sally’s told me I was wrong and needed to get the L’oreal Quick Blue Powder Bleach instead and handed me a 40 volume developer to go along with it. I was skeptical at first, but since it was about the same price I figured she wasn’t trying to upsell me and I just went with it. I left with the bleach, the color, two developers, and went on to go get my hair cut.
When I got home, I put the bleach in my hair and let it sit for 40 minutes. The directions said to leave it in for 50, but my hair was really hot when we checked it at the 40 minute mark so we rushed to rinse it out as fast as possible. The very second I touched my hair, my stomach dropped. I knew it was ruined and I had no idea what to do or how to save it. Much of the section of hair had already fallen off and the hair that was left felt exactly like those thin Chinese noodles that just rip apart when wet. I was devastated.
I take pretty good care of my hair on a regular basis and it’s pretty healthy and strong. I think that is the only thing I had going for me in this situation. Had my hair been any thinner or damaged, I’m pretty sure I wouldn’t have had anything left at all. I wasn’t able to brush it or comb it for a few days because every time I tried, it just created even more knots which lead to even more hair falling out.
So what I did instead was grab whatever oil I could find that I had laying around, poured it into a small bowl and literally dunked my hair in it. I wanted to touch my hair as little as possible, so sitting it in the bowl and letting it absorb the oil on its own was my best option. Then I dropped that hair in a tube sock, tied a hair tie around it at the top where it wasn’t damaged, and gently clipped it on top of my head. I did that for three or four days, switching back and forth between coconut oil, argan oil, and keratin oil. When I showered, I moved the hair into a ziplock baggie and worked around it. I felt so dirty and full of oil, my anxiety was through the roof. Not to mention that I still hadn’t come to terms with what had happened.
After a few days of the oil treatment, we were having our families come over for a barbeque at our house and I had no option but to comb it out and dye it brown. I could no longer keep my hair separated because it was giving me horrible headaches, it was so uncomfortable to sleep with, and I was tired of not leaving the house. The hair didn’t have any more damage after dying it brown, but you can see in the picture below just how much hair has fallen out of that section compared to the length of my normal hair. It’s now four weeks later and I am still losing hair every day.
Matching my hair was pretty difficult. I had never dyed any part of my hair, other than that one section, so I had my own kind of mix between dirty blonde, light to medium brown, with natural golden highlights. The dye I ended up going with was the ion Color Brilliance 5N Light Brown and I used it with the same brand’s 10 volume developer. It matched me pretty well, but it is a little darker than the other side of my hair that’s natural. I think I’m the only one who can really tell a difference, though, because I know it’s there. I only left the dye in for about 25 minutes before washing it out. I honestly could have washed it out a little sooner because it developed really quickly and got darker than I was expecting since I was starting with such thin, starch white hair.
I still put the keratin oil treatment in my hair every single night after I get out of the shower. Now that the section of hair is combined with the rest, you almost can’t even tell what happened. It’s still not in the best condition and I can clearly tell a difference in the texture of my hair when I touch it. I’m at least happy that you can’t actually see a difference. I’ve lost the majority of hair from that section, but one of the biggest things I can be thankful for is that it was such a small amount of hair that was damaged.
I know that bleaching your hair can be risky business and my only regret is listening to the lady at Sally’s. I should have just gotten the bleach that I had used before that didn’t damage my hair. Aside from putting the keratin oil in my hair every night, I’m also making sure that I take my biotin supplements every day to make my hair grow faster. I still get really upset when I think about it, but try to keep reminding myself that it could have been much worse.
I hope you found this helpful if you’re going through the same thing or that it prevented you from making the same mistake. If you have any other questions, please feel free to leave them for me in the comments below. I hope you have a wonderful weekend full of good hair days!
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